Looking for love in all the wrong places may get you involved in a scam rather than finding your soulmate. With dating sites, apps, social media, you need to stay on guard on your dating prospects as they play on emotional triggers to get you to provide money, gifts, or personal information.
The Brave, New Dating World
Dating has evolved from meeting people out and about to a virtual online dating where the first contact is through an email, an initial method used by scammers and hackers. With such ill intentions as gaining money or personal details, these scammers are referred to as catfish.
These scam artists create fake online profiles, designed to lure you in. With fictional names, occupations, and stories, these hackers will express strong emotions for you in a relatively short period of time.
The Scammer’s Game
Scammers will go to great lengths to gain your interest and trust, such as showering you with loving words, sharing ‘personal information’ and even sending you gifts. They may take months to build what may feel like the romance of a lifetime and may even pretend to book flights to visit you, but never actually come.
Once they have gained your trust and your defenses are down, they will ask you for money, gifts or your banking/credit card details. Often the scammer will pretend to need the money for some sort of personal emergency. The scammer may claim they want to travel to visit you, but cannot afford it unless you are able to lend them money to cover flights or other travel expenses.
Avoid Criminal Activity
Sometimes the scammer will send you valuable items such as laptop computers and mobile phones and ask you to resend them somewhere. They will invent some reason why they need you to send the goods but this is just a way for them to cover up their criminal activity.
Alternatively, they may ask you to buy the goods yourself and send them somewhere. You might even be asked to accept money into your bank account and then transfer it to someone else.
Sometimes the scammer will tell you about a large amount of money or gold they need to transfer out of their country and offer you a share of it. They will tell you they need your money to cover administrative fees or taxes.
Regardless of how you are scammed, you could end up losing a lot of money. Online dating and romance scams cheat people out of millions every year. The money you send to scammers is almost always impossible to recover and, in addition, you may feel long-lasting emotional betrayal at the hands of someone you thought loved you.
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